Welcome.


Hi everyone and welcome to Bristol Grandparents Support Group blog. Although we are Bristol based we have grandparents from all over the UK and beyond as members.

It is estimated that over one million children in the UK are denied contact with their grandparents due to family breakdown which may have been caused by divorce/separation, alcohol/drug dependency,domestic violence,bereavement or family feud.
Every child has the right to have contact with their grandparents
if they wish and unless proven unsafe for them to do so. To deny contact from a parent or grandparent has to become as socially unacceptable as drink driving.
I hope to keep you up to date with what is going on in BGSG and I shall continue to campaign for the rights of children to have a loving and meaningful relationship with both parents and their extended family. So please join in as good to hear your views, not just mine!
I also will support via Skype.
There is no membership fee to be part of Bristol Grandparents Support Group.
Esther Rantzen says, " To every grandparent, links of love can never be broken in our hearts."

Please contact during office hours.
07773258270


Saturday, 28 May 2011

Website now live.

As promised Bristol Grandparents Support Group has a new website, take a look, let me know what you think.


I would like to thank Paul Jackson for his enormous patience with me whilst he designed the website.

Jane

Friday, 27 May 2011

Consultation on Family Justice Review Interim Report.

I will be attending the consultation meeting in Cardiff on 31stMay.
There is a presentation on the report and an opportunity to ask questions, will report back.

Agenda.
2.00pm - Introduction

2.05pm - Overview of the proposals in the interim report -, Keith Towler
- Family Justice Review
2.30pm - Group discussions - Private law, Public law and Family Justice
Service
3.00pm - Discussion groups feedback
3.30pm - Q&A
4.00pm - Closing comments

Jane

Thursday, 19 May 2011

When a grandparent has their child and grandchildren taken from them..

Every case of grandchildren being denied a relationship with their grandparents is heartbreaking,and I spend many hours thinking about them and why it happens, Ok there may have been an argument, a grandparent may have talked out of turn but why is it necessary to stop the children seeing them?
One of the worst cases is when grandparents have lost a son or daughter prematurely through an accident or illness, and then the parent who is left decides that the children can no longer see the grandparents of their partner who dies.
Loosing one of our children is something we all dread and it seems so unnatural for our children to die before us, but then to also lose the only connection of your child, your grandchildren it dreadful.
And I have many grandparents I speak to that this has happened to, the devastation they feel is enormous.
As if the children don't have enough to cope with when their parent dies their grandparents are taken from them as well.
I really don't understand at all.
Jane.

Wednesday, 18 May 2011

New Website

Watch this space, a new Bristol Grandparents Support Group website is nearly ready to go live.

Tuesday, 17 May 2011

A soldier who could no longer live without his children.

This is a hard hitting video,and although it is about a member of the armed forces, it is actually a true insight into any parent who is denied contact with their children, there are many non resident parents who have taken such drastic steps.

Sunday, 15 May 2011

30 years and only 3 grandparents?

If a person residing over the Family Court with 30 years experience has only ever had 3 grandparents before them applying for a contact order to allow them to see their grandchildren,it must be indicative of how futile it is to even consider going down the legal route.
It is fact that their are over one million children in the UK denied contact with their grandparents, it just proves that our legal system is letting them down.
Jane

Saturday, 14 May 2011

BBC Report Re Twitter and Facebook-banning information

An injunction which bans publication of information on Twitter and Facebook has been issued by a High Court judge.

It is thought to be the first specific ban on publishing information on any "social network or media including Twitter or Facebook", plus other media.

It was made by Mr Justice Baker in the Court of Protection, which is linked to the Family Division of the High Court.

Orders to prevent children being identified usually ban publication in print, websites and media broadcasts.

The order by Mr Justice Baker was issued in a case involving a woman, who can be referred to only as "M".

She has been in "a minimally conscious state" since suffering from swelling of the brain stem, which caused serious damage and wasting to the brain.

The woman suffered the illness in 2003, when she was 43, and has been minimally conscious since then.

Her mother applied to the Court of Protection - which deals with cases of those who are unable to make their own decisions on medical care or other issues - for an order that those who are looking after M could withdraw nourishment and medical treatment and allow her to die, while giving her the care and treatment she needed to suffer the least distress and maintain as much dignity as possible.

English courts jurisdiction

Mr Justice Baker had already issued an injunction in the case banning the media not merely from publishing information which could identify anyone involved in the case, but also from contacting a list of 65 people who were connected with it, including M's relatives and care home staff.

The new order, which was attached to a judgment handed down on Thursday, bans the identification of the parties and other people, and the care home or NHS Trust responsible for treating M.

It also bans anyone from making any attempt to contact a variety of people, including M's mother, sister and husband, or going within specified distances of certain people and locations.

The specific ban on publication of information on social media comes after a user of the Twitter website used it to publish details of individuals who had allegedly obtained injunctions banning the media from publishing stories about their private lives.

However, legal observers believe it could be difficult to enforce because both Twitter and Facebook are run by companies in the US, which are outside the jurisdiction of the English courts.

This could make it difficult to trace the identity of anyone who posted material.

The Court of Protection Rules specify that cases are usually heard in secret.

However, it does allow for exceptions in which cases can be heard in public, subject to reporting restrictions protecting the identities of the parties.

Meanwhile, a blogger who published the full text of a gagging order online has said he did so because he did not agree with the idea that people should be able to go to court to silence others.

It is thought to be the first time that a person who can be identified - the blogger's name, address, phone number and two e-mail address appear on his blog site - has published a full copy of an injunction online.

The move marks the latest stage in a growing internet backlash against secrecy orders issued by English courts.